why dose it matter?

I never let anyone know I was a virgin when I was a virgin. I only had sex so I would not be a virgin anymore. I was not inlove with the person and it meant nothing at all. I thought is this all it is...why do people make such a big fuss over it.

So, everyone at work does not need to know you did or did not have sex. They would not know if you did not tell them. You do not need to answer all questions people ask you. That is your own business. I think your coworkers are just bored so they want some drama.

You could say that you are waiting until you get married. They have to respect that.

My message posted twice so I deleted this one.

how does this even come up?? if they bring it up again, just say you are done talking about it and get back to work. if it keeps coming up, just tell them "listen, it's private. i'm sorry i ever talked about it at all, but that was a mistake and i'm done now. so leave it alone." keep refusing to engage. if they keep bringing it up ot being disrespectful, you may want to involve your manager because this sort of thing is really inappropriate in a work place.

If anyone ever asks you again about ANYTHING personal, look them in the eye and say with great incredulity, "Why on earth would you need to know that??" Whatever reason they give you, it's not good enough, so say again, "But why would you need to know??" Keep repeating, without answering their question. Make it clear you have no intention of divulging your personal life to them.

how do they even know this to start with? this sounds like sexual harrassment to me. don't tell your business to any of these assholes. just be like wow that is really none of your business. and play that salt n pepa song.

whats the matter with your life
why you gotta mess with mine
don't be puttin your cheap two cents in
cuz i'm gonna be just fine

check it!