why does society hate when people over 30 live home |
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My daughter is over 30 and she lives with me.She gets harassment for it .I am single she is single we are trying to save some money .my daughter helps out she gives me money buys things for the house .I just don't get why this makes others angry and why it is bad nowadays ??A few yrs back in the older times people had no problem with it . Why does it bother society now ? |
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jouli:Don't make this woman's issues yours. You can't change her, you can only change how you react to her. If she makes comments to you again, just say, "We're about the same age, so you must think God made a mistake with you. Personally, I think he did a pretty good job with me.
2010-08-31 23:34
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jouli:I took the advice of people who told me that I had to step away from this and avoided being anywhere near these two people.pass4sure 1z0-007 I did just that (even spending some time in a distant vacation spot) and know that my health would have suffered if I had continued to put myself through this wringer. However, I will need to put myself in close proximity again in the near future to these persons. For all I know, I may not ever see one or both of them again. The chances are that I will see them again. In case I do, and this man says something to me like "How have you been" or something like that should I ignore him altogether or explain to him that I want no part of him and any triangle involving this lady friend of his?pass4sure JN0-342 Just the thought of this repeating itself again makes me sick. pass4sure XK0-002 However, I just don't feel that the problem is solved.pass4sure NS0-501 There is a saying about not solving problems by running away from them. What do you think about how I should handle this? I greatly appreciate your honest comments.
2010-09-28 23:05
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harleygirl:
People just like to be in other peoples' business. In some culcures, the children (male and female) don't leave home until they marry. In this economy, it's become pretty common for grown children to have to go home again to get back on their feet. If you get negative comments, just say, "I'm confused. How is that your business?" If you don't want to affend a close friend (and they're being nosy, personally, I wouldn't care, but that's your call), you could just say, "Dear, why on earth are you interested?" If they give you a reason, just repeat, "But why?" until they give up.