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I found out from a very reliable source that my husband is seeing another woman. From what I hear about her, she is very flirtatious and runs after every man. They work in the same office in fairly close proximity. I simply can't deal with this and I am overwrought with grief. I was thinking that maybe there is a way to get this woman transferred to another office. Do you think if I sent an email about the situation to the director of the entire department, do you think he would do something about this? I mean get this woman transferred somewhere else? At least, then, this affair might dissolve. Please let me hear from you very soon. I just don't know what to do or who to turn to. Thank you so much!!! |
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whatdoyoumeancookie:wow....talk to your husband. don't contact his job, that's manipulative and immature. talk to him, not his boss. that's just making extra drama. if your husband will cheat on you, then moving the lady to another office is not going to solve anything. HE'S THE ONE FUCKING UP HERE.
2010-08-28 19:23
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harleygirl:You're getting angry at the wrong person. If your husband is dicking around, (and it may not be his first pony ride) need to contact a divorce lawyer, not his place of employment. It could backfire on you if both he and his "piece of ass" get fired. You want to make sure he remains employed so you can get a fair settlement in court. Of course, if want to save your marriage, you could talk to him like an adult and see if he's willing to put in for a transfer. If he's not, then I guess you have your answer.
2010-08-29 17:26
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marinemj:
you need to talk to your husband. if he is seeing someone else, you have problems in your marriage that you need to address. and he can't be trusted without owning up to it and dealing with the reasons and ramifications. so move your focus away from the other woman and onto your husband and talk to him about it.