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I have always felt like my dad wasn't proud of me . You see my brother is married with two children and my sister who lives with him goes to collage .We live in a different state .My brother and I live in the same state my dad and step mom and sister live in the same state .my sister is really my half sister but i don't like saying that she is a half.Anway its like he is proud of my Lil sis and proud of my brother but not of me .I work in a warehouse but I make really good money .Maybe the sound of me working in warehouse just doesn't make him proud .He once said a monkey could do my job .In reality I work lots of overtime and lots of people cant work those hrs .I don't feel jealous of my bro or sis I feel more embarrassed . I feel that I am an embarrassment to my dad .Not only the job situation but I have always felt this way .No one would ever be able to tell i feel this way, my dad has no clue .

asked by Anonymous on Monday, January 4, 2010 - 01:37 | PROVIDE UPDATE

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harleygirl:

In this economy, you're lucky to have a job, especially getting overtime! It was unkind of your father to say what he did. If you've always felt your dad wasn't proud of you, I think you need to sit down and have an adult chat with him. Explain to him how you feel. He may not know what he's doing, and you may be surprised to find he actually is proud of you. Perhaps he's a bit jealous that you are making good money. Do you make more than he does? If he blows you off, calling you a sissy for having feelings, etc., then it's time to realize you can't change him. You can only change how you react to him. Understand that you ARE important. Surround yourself with positive people who make you feel good about yourself.

2010-01-04 08:26
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marinemj:

maybe you should talk to your dad about this and get to what's really behind his comments and your feelings. it's possible that he's one of those people that really values education and worries that you are selling yourself short. it's hard to say because i don't know your dad. but seriously, try to have a talk with him and see how it goes.

2010-01-04 13:34
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jouli:

Seriously why would you waste your time writing that much over such a insubstantial topic.642-373 Who cares what size you are and how much you weigh... and who really cares what another person has to say about it. If you are that insecure and need constant reassurance that you are skinny, you need to seek professional help.642-446 I am not trying to sound mean or inconsiderate to your post,1Y0-A05 there just seems to be an underlying issue that needs to have attention brought to it.

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2010-08-29 23:14
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jouli:

THEN UP at the house her mother came into Sharon's room and said in an angry tone you have the nerve to tell me to go to h*ll at place of worship. Your neck is scrawny,
pass4sure 646-230 you have a fat rear end., you fat horse. Sharon then asked her mother about a half hour later when her came back into Sharon’s room to fight some more mom do you really think that about my rear end.
pass4sure PW0-104Her mom replied in a angry nasty voice that she does because the mom is convinced Sharon meant all the nasty things Sharon said to her mom so her mom was not going to change her answers.pass4sure 642-359 Sharon called a couple of her friends and asked did my mom mean the nasty things she said about me (rear end) and her friends said no people say nasty things they DO NOT mean to someone they are fighting with just to hurt them and no your mom does not think your rear is big. She just said because you are obsessed with weight.pass4sure JN0-331 My question: Do you agree with what Sharons friends said?

2010-09-22 01:28
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jouli:

you may also want to contact the groups administrators and let them know that this guy technically hasn't done anything wrong but he is definitely being a little creepy.braindumps oracle you may not be the first person to complain about him.

don't let him stop you from going to events and meeting new people. it might be a good idea to get a ride or park further away,
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and to start out at daytime events. is this the sort of thing where people rsvp ahead of time? if so,cse and if there is someone who lives near you, you may want to message them privately and explain the situation a little and see if they would mind picking you up. if he hassles you at the events, just be really firm.ibm certification it can be hard to stand up to someone to their face, but you just need to say, "listen, i said i joined to make friend and not date. and you are creeping me out when you make those comments."

2010-09-28 23:09