How do i get my ex boyfriend back? |
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I dated a guy for almost four years. He is single, never married and no child. I have been married and have a six year old girl child. All was well but he suddenly dumped me saying he had lost trust in me. I had not given him any reason to lose trust in me. I went through a rough patch and for about two months he would text and confusing messages.One minute he would apologise and the next he would say he thinks what he thinks what we did was the right thing to do. I decided to move on as a way of trying to get over him and made sure he knew about it. Then he tried to get back with me but I was a fool not to take him back. He has moved on now but he says he is still to learn to love her the way he does to me. He also claims that he will never stop loving me but still doesn't want to be with me. I have gone to a point where I do not contact him anymore though I always have this edge of wanting to talk to him. I love this guy and i respect his wishes. I can not live to forget this guy and I just want him in my life, even as a friend. I trying to follow the advice that I should not contact him and all. How do I get him back, even as a friend. |
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marinemj:i'm totally with harley on this. if you guys aren't going to be in a relationship, let it go. the friend thing doesn't work when you have feelings for each other and it's just too painful.
2010-09-01 15:15
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2011-12-31 22:34
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harleygirl:
If you want to keep your sanity, let it go. My daughter had a situation like this, where her boyfriend unexpectedly broke up with her. It ripped her heart to pieces. He said later that he did it to shock her into changing, and they weren't really broken up and he wanted her back. My daughter told him, "Sorry, we ARE broken up." She wouldn't take him back and he went ballistic. He knew he'd made a huge mistake and tried to get her back for years, then resolved to just be friends for almost 13 years. They're both married now, but in those years they stopped talking because it was too painful for the boyfriend and he'd contact her again. They both thought the friend thing would work, but it doesn't. My husband and I kept telling her that as long as he thought there was hope, the bf wouldn't move on with his life. She didn't believe us until the very end. For all I know, they may still talk now and then.