Girlfriend says she's too 'busy'..
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The thing is, i know it's true. She's going through some rough patches right now and i understand that she has things to take care of. But is that an excuse to not pick up a phone? Or answer an email? I don't know.. she says i'm being too pushy, which might be true but it's only because I haven't had any contact with her for so long. Doesn't she have any feelings for me anymore? I need to know whether to stay patient and wait for her life to go back to normal, or realize that she cares so little for me that she ignores me the second she's 'too busy'..
P.S. I love her.

asked by Anonymous on Sunday, March 7, 2010 - 06:10 and last updated on Sunday, March 7, 2010 - 06:27 | PROVIDE UPDATE

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whatdoyoumeancookie:

ummmm move on

2010-03-07 13:11
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bluewolf and bunny:

We think this calls for some conversation. Be up front with her. Tell her that you feel like she doesn't have time for you and ask her if that's true. Ask her if she wants to continue the relationship and be prepared for a negative answer. To us it sounds like she is pulling away hoping that you will get the message. We understand that you love her and break-ups are never easy but the sooner you know the truth the better.

2010-03-08 14:24
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harleygirl:

Usually, if a couple is in a good spot, being busy isn't a valid reason not to answer emails or at least check in now and then. Going through a rough patch is all the more reason she needs support from a loving relationship, which sounds like she doesn't feel she wants from you anymore. I'd say it's time to let go of her and move on to those other fish in the sea.

2010-03-07 08:52
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brendabzb:

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2012-01-07 23:18
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sweetone:

It sounds like she needs space from you. It does not sound like she is that into you.

2010-03-07 07:14