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I have needy friend who always says I need my friends to be here for me for this or that I feel bad but she is too needy and very annoying and she ask to much of people .I don't mind being there for her and i have done tons of stuff for her .Its like one or two times that someone cant do her a favor its the end of the world and whoever cant do for her what she wants at that time she always claims they are not friend . she makes me feel like a bad person and i am not .This recent time she feels i am not a friend is because she wanted to get wasted and wanted me to chauffeur her around so she don't have to drive and now she isn't talking to me because I didn't take her where she wanted to go .I just want to know am I wrong ??Maybe I am really a bad friend ??

asked by Anonymous on Saturday, August 28, 2010 - 16:07 | PROVIDE UPDATE

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whatdoyoumeancookie:

trust your instinct here. you seem like a nice person and probably a good friend. some people are energy vampires. look it up, you'll probably recognize it.

i've had several friends like this and i've ditched them. it's totally worth it and you only feel guilty for like a day. it's freeing.

2010-08-28 23:58
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marinemj:

it sounds like she is way too needy and nothing you do will ever be enough. you'll probably be happier without her as a friend.

2010-08-29 00:37