Confused Highschooler!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE ANSWER SOON IM AM IN A RUSH!!!!!!!!!
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I have liked this boy in my grade for this whole school year, and i thought that he liked me back....there were signs....but today in school i heard him talking to his friends about the girl he likes and i got the impression that the girl was not me. It is still possibly me but I am still let down and kinda depressed. What should i do? i am shy and confused and want him to notice me!!!!!

3-9-10
Thank you to both bluewolf and bunny and sweetone! I appreciate and understand everything that you two have had to say! Thanks =)

asked by Anonymous on Monday, March 8, 2010 - 23:05 and last updated on Tuesday, March 9, 2010 - 17:19 | PROVIDE UPDATE

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sweetone:

If he likes someone else right now, it will be hard for him to notice you unless the other person rejects him. I bet there are others guys who would interest you if you were not so focused on this guy. Be open to other guys.

2010-03-09 11:09
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bluewolf and bunny:

First, you can choose to not be sad and depressed because you are only guessing that he wasn't talking about you. Secondly, guys are attracted to girls with confidence and self-assurance so don't allow yourself to be all down. Show him that you are interested in him.
bluewolf says: When I was your age what always worked was when a girl showed interest in me. Now a days it's even easier because it's very common for a girl to say "Hey, wanna go do something?"
We think you should show him that you are interested in him without being too "needy". For example be a little flirty with him and when he shows interest in you then be a tiny bit aloof (just be careful to not overdo it)
You're only shy because you lack self-confidence but you can change that. This is what worked for bunny when she was younger. Every morning when you get up go to the mirror and look into your eyes and say "I have a great personality and I am pretty and any guy would be lucky to go out with me." In the beginning you won't believe what you are saying (bunny laughed at herself at first) But just keep repeating it and eventually you will.
Just remember to laugh and have fun with your friends because guys find this attractive.
Adults almost always wind up saying at one point or another "Don't worry there are far more fish in the sea" or something like it, and as trite as that sounds it is actually true. Don't set all of your sights on just this one guy. Just concentrate on getting over your shyness, work on your self-confidence and be yourself. Have fun with your friends. The right guy will find you!

2010-03-09 09:42