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I have been with my bf for almost 2 years. I knew he had psoriasis, but he recently told me that it is on his penis, too. Which explains why he hardly ever let me touch it or see it. I always thought he just had a lower sex drive than me but he explained that it hurts to have an erection when he has a flare up of his psoriasis. That is all fine and dandy except the fact that he watches porn alot. And the biggest issue is that he has not had an orgasm with me in AT LEAST 4 months. I don't know if he has had one by masturbation because he won't talk about the subject. What could be going on? And he is not on any medication. Thank you for your time. |
peazeblossom:
What type of porn is he watching? Seriously, what type and how much? There are people that become addicted to porn and can only get off from watching it. Is he into extreme porn and maybe is afraid you wont experiment. Or maybe he has unrealistic expectations.... Is it even heterosexual porn.... Did you ever watch Sex in the City? One character's husband couldn't ejaculate with her but loved xrated magazines. In any event it sounds like he obviously cares about you, but for whatever reason is not sexually attracted to you. Life is short you deserve to be happy. If a happy and healthy sex life means anything to you it might be time to consider moving on. There are so many people out there that would love to have a normal relationship you just gotta take the chance. The most important thing is, don't blame yourself it sounds like this is his hang up not yours...Okay, so get out there and find someone to be happy with.