ook im a 14 yr old girl in school I'm known to be funny random and weird......when i walk down the hallway every 1 says hi or dishes out a joke or inside joke 2 me. what i find is that a girl i met this year has traits like mine except she is too friendly with every1 I'm friends wit lots of people i do not want enemies i just like to be steady with every1. so ill walk out of a class with a guy friend then she just throws herself on top of him with if i wanna make a move or something she always comes in and then because she's auctioning herself off like a piece of meat every1 thinks there special and will ask her out even tho she has a bf. idk. Is it the guys cus my too best friends (both guys) think she's a ........... but idk she's really skinny and pretty on the other hand I'm prbly fat and tall. (5'6) about 115lbs idk i just feel that guys dnt like me ........i am tall kinda thin nt really a bad nose black and ginger hair straight and kind of wavy at the same time and lots of freckles I'm hispanic 2 I've been asked out a few times and flirted with but there all unattractive i guest I'm just easy to talk to. people call me weird and bully me by flirting its weird I'm hurt but nt cus i kno there flirting also i feel fat looking and ugly ......please help meeee.....i also really like acting and my parents allow me to be on stage but find its nt realistic oooo boy i hadproblems!
Alicia:
Every person is beautiful in it's own way and you should not panic or be embarrassed. As far as I remember from my psychology thesis papers - this is typical situation for most of teenagers and even that other girl feels something like, but in some other way maybe. You have to be strong and overcome this, just be yourself and people will see it and understand. And by the way, if you really love acting then you have to ask your parents about putting you into some kind of school acting group. Or even better! Ask them to find such a group out of school, so you will have a chance to find new friends, who doesn't know you yet.